dykejedi:

I believe we need the whole “I want to kiss her and hold her hand under the moon uwu soft moon lesbian” thing, especially for young wlw, like it’s so important, but we also live in a world where girls who like girls are either hypersexualed and fetishized by men/porn or completely desexualized to the point where the world is convinced that older lesbians don’t have sex lives.

So here’s some positivity for all young wlw:

It’s okay to fantasize sexually about girls. It’s okay to get off thinking about girls. It’s okay to check girls out. It’s okay to have sex with girls, however many you want. It’s okay to want a girl to give you an orgasm, and it’s okay to want to give girls orgasms.

Wanting this doesn’t make your attraction any less soft or innocent because there is nothing dirty, bad, or perverse about being sexually attracted to other girls. You can make her a flower crown while the sun sets and count her freckles and then go home and go down on her for an hour. The two aren’t mutually exclusive. 

And if you’re an older woman who struggles with this too, it applies for you as well.